Come on laaa... Relationship??? pls dont be in one.. if u do not know how to be in one.. why wanna be in a relationship if u wanna split... and hurt each other ??
Guys..
When u r in ur relationship.. do not change all of a sudden.. dont start to avoid ur frenz.. there is no need to delete frenster or facebook account.. there is no need to ignore u guy frenz.. there is no need to not join whatever ur guy frens do like always.. if u dont want ur gf to have a other guy fren.. then u also dont have other gal fren.. can u ? if u dont want ur gf to flirt with other guys.. can u stop flirting with other gals ?.. can u stop changing gals like u change ur shirt ? Pls respect them.. Guys should have some good image for urself..
Gals..
Can u choose the rite guy in the 1st place althought its hard to know who r the good guys.. but why rush in ?? why not be patient.. why always choose the wrong guy when u have the right person.. right in front of ur eyes.. which u dont realise too.. it's like a blind spot.. normally u have reasons to avoid this person.. why wanna be in a relationship with a guy.. and then complain that he is not taking good care of u.. ? dont bug his life to leave his frens.. he know them longer than u.. do not bug him to delete frenster or facebook account.. if u dont like ur bf talking with other gals.. do u realise that he will feel the same too ? so can u stop being a fren to other guys?.. and the weirdest thing is.. how in the hell u break up with a guy.. n so fast be another guy's gf.. gal's should be like fire.. nice to see.. but untouchable.. not like a LALANG..
Now.. there is no relationship without fights.. jealousy.. and ego.. its all normal.. but.. 2 things are important.. TRUST and UNDERSTANDING.. no matter what happens.. no matter how the couples are.. if they truly have this 2 things between them.. then no need to face so many problems.. until wanna quit studying.. wanna kill urself.. wanna revenge.. wanna create bad name..
If u do not trust and do not understand each other well.. in the 1st place.. do not be in a relationship.. another thing is.. dont be in a relationship when u r too young n dont know nuts about it.. coze there are many couples who really make it to the special day of life.. the recipe is.. Trust & Understanding which give birth to TRUE LOVE..
Sorry if this post hurts anyone.. i dont mean to.. but.. its just the things happening around me.. the people who r in tears.. the people who r suffering.. the people who r going throught hell just becoze of a relationship.. makes me post this..
Regards..
T1&O
7 comments:
I surely agree with your post bro, it is because if there is no understanding among partners now, how is it going to be when it time to be together forever in marriage life? Really hope everyone share their opinions...Thanx
hahaha...relates to many stories ive heard...including me personally. logical thingking, ive tot of it many times. but most of this act of cruelness happens at a spur of the moment. the action just skips ur brain. its no justification but its not absolute fault.
then dont let the action skip ur brain.. be in control of urself in any situation.. if some people can.. then obviously its not possible to control oneself.. this is what i think..
every situation is different... people you deal with is different...the conditions under wat ur in the situation varies. but wats wrong is wrong. no two ways. im just saying thats its no absolute fault. that the 2 parties had a fault. one might be bigger then the other, but the 2 parties are at fault.
DEAR Alvin..nice post.i do amazed when read ur post.it's true cuz it do really happen in our real life..thx bro..u made me undestand more about the meaning of relationship..kept up the good post..i want more from u!!=P
10q aisyah.. there are more to come..
i like this my dear alvin. imysm!
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