Thursday, March 10, 2011

Break Ups.. Break thru it..

Break Ups Suck! You give all you have to a relationship.. You give your heart to an individual.. You count on them to make you whole.. Then it's all over.. and just like that.. you are left a 'half'.. incomplete.. non-sufficient.. That really hurts !!

BUT.. If you think about it.. when you were in a relationship there must have been.. in some part of it.. a time when you wished you were single.. Right? Sometimes we envy those who are 'free' when we are not.. and we envy those who are 'in a relationship' when we are not.. Break Ups hurts.. yes.. but being single has a lot of great things to say about it !!

Its hard to get out of it.. but.. always say to urself.. that its not the end of the world.. and the person is not lucky enuff to have you in their life.. Love urself instead..

Its rewarding.. to find someone you like.. but it is essential to like yourself.. It is quickening to recognize that someone is a good and decent human being.. but it is indispensable to view yourself as acceptable.. It is a delight to discover people who are worthy of respect and admiration and love.. but it is vital to believe yourself deserving of these things.. For you cannot live in someone else.. You cannot find yourself in someone else.. You cannot be given a life by someone else.. Of all the people you will know in a lifetime.. you are the only one you will never leave or lose.. To the question of your life.. you are the only answer.. To the problems of your life.. you are the only solution..

Its hard.. but its all in you.. :)