Monday, August 31, 2009
I just drove somewhere near had a meal with another Malaysian and a Sri Lankan.. thats all..
Merdeka !! A word i respect.. a word i appreciate very much.. a word that contains.. all the tears.. the blood and the pain.. gone through by those people who fought for the independence of this country.. They were UNITED and the fought for it with all their heart and they got it.. I still remember my grandfather told me.. when they hear to Tunku Abdul Rahman's voice saying MERDEKA proudly that day.. the people even had goose bumps.. it was that special..
They got the independence.. for what ??? for us to still be like this ?? RACISM everywhere.. A fellow fren from another country said after spending few years here.. " Racism is like a built in our body system and its like we r born with it ".. We must feel ashamed when someone else see this in our country that we always BOAST about being.. Multiracial.. Multicultured.. Multinational..
Young kids are being told by their parents.. that is a malay.. this is an indian and the other one is a chinese.. why?? why they should be told like this ?? why should they grow up thinking that we r all different ?? My parents did not teach anything like that ?? Until this second.. I have Malay.. Chinese and Indian frenz who even do anything at all for me.. who will even die for me.. If i can.. why cant the rest.. ??
I'll tell u what is Merdeka.. Merdeka is.. when we be in this country without any difference.. Merdeka is when we see each other.. we be together.. we smile.. and do everything sincerely from the heart.. not just for name sake.. smile in front of them.. and talk bad or hate them in reality.. Merdeka is when u can count on anyone and trust them regardless of RACE n RELIGION.. Merdeka is when there is no built in hatred among Malaysians.. Merdeka is when i see any application form.. without the Malay.. Indian.. Chinese.. and Lain Lain column.. There should only be 2 columns.. Malaysian and Non Malaysian.. Merdeka is when one of us r in a foreign country and we can still say proudly that I'm A Malaysian.. Merdeka is when there is TOTALLY NO RACISM and difference between the people who were born and live here..
If all this happen.. then u come and ask me.. Lets Celebrate Merdeka.. I will surely celebrate it..
Do u all think this is impossible.. I dont think so.. I think its very possible.. Its all in us.. If everyone else think like i do.. We can achieve this.. and always remember.. even now i'm writing for all of us.. for us Malaysians.. for our country Malaysia..
So lets do something about this.. enuff is enuff.. we wanna be like this ? or we wanna become the number 1 country in the world.. we are capable.. ONLY IF... we unite.. DONT SIMPLY say.. sing or shout 1 MALAYSIA... NO USE..
Lets make this become reality.. where can sincerely feel and proudly say.. I'm Malaysian..
Towards a better future.. Best wishes of 52nd Merdeka..
Monday, August 3, 2009
A friend is someone who understands whatever u do..
A friend is someone who tells u the truth about urself..
A friend is someone who knows what u going through at all times..
A friend is someone who refuses to listen to gossip about u..
A friend is someone who supports u all the time..
A friend is someone who never competes with u..
A friend is someone who is genuinely happy for u when things go well..
A friend is someone close to ur heart and always there for u..
A friend is someone that see ur true self and always see the best of u..
A friend is someone who always have them open to listen and hear what u really saying..
A friend is someone that will be ur strength when u cant carry urself..
A friend is someone who always offer hugs and make u feel comfortable..
A friend is someone for u to hold on when u need guidance to help u get up when u fall..
A friend is someone that can even listen to what u dont say..
A friend is someone that is concern of things that u do and think..
A friend is someone that always loves u and have a place for u..
Each friend represent a world in us.. a world possibly not born until they arrive.. and it is only by this meeting a new world is born..
This is how i wanna be towards my all my frenz.. no matter who they are.. where they come from.. regardless of anything at all.. if u r my fren.. a true fren.. then u r like a treasure for me..
Sunday, June 28, 2009
Name : Michael Joseph Jackson
Born : August 29, 1958
Died : June 25, 2009
Genre : Pop.. R&B.. Rock
Occupation : Singer, songwriter, record producer, arranger, dancer, choreographer, actor,
author,businessman, financier, philanthropist
Instruments : Vocal.. Multiple Instruments..
Years Active : 1964 - 2009
The Bio History of Michael Joseph Jackson began when he was born on the 29th of August 1958 in Gary, Indiana. He was the 7th of nine children. (brothers: Sigmund "Jackie", Toriano "Tito", Jermaine, Marlon, Steven "Randy", and sisters Rebbie, Janet and La-Toya Jackson. Michael began his musical career at the age of 5 as the lead singer of the Jackson 5 who formed in 1964. In these early years the Jackson 5, Jackie, Jermaine,Tito,Marlon and lead singer Michael played local clubs and bars in Gary Indiana and moving further afield as there talents grew and they could compete in bigger competitions. From these early days Michael would be at the same clubs as big talented stars of there days, such as Jackie Wilson and would be learning from them even back then. In 1968 the Bobby Taylor and The Vancouvers discovered the Jackson five and from there they got an audition for Berry Gordy of Motown Records. The Jackson 5 signed for Motown and moved to California. Their first 4 singles, "I Want You Back", "ABC", "The Love You Save", and "I'll Be There" all made US No1 hits. The Jackson 5 recorded 14 albums and Michael recorded 4 solo albums with Motown. The Jackson 5 stayed with Motown until 1976, wanting more artistic freedom they felt they had to move on and signed up with Epic. The group name Jackson 5 had to be changed as it was owned by Motown, so they reverted to The Jacksons as they had be known in the early days. Brother Jermaine married Berry Gordy's daughter and stayed with Motown. Youngest brother Randy joined in his place. The Jacksons had a number of hit recordsand in total made 6 albums between the years of 1976 and 1984. In 1977 Michael made his first film debut when he starred in the musical 'The Wiz' playing Scarecrow with Diana Ross in the lead role of Dorothy. It was at this time Michael met Quincy Jones who was doing the score for the film. Michael teamed up with Quincey Jones as his producer for his first solo album with Epic Records. The album titled "Off The Wall" was a big success around the world and the first ever album to release a record breaking 4 No1 singles in the US. In 1982 Michael Jackson released the world's largest selling album of all time, 'Thriller'. This album produced 7 hit singles, breaking yet again more records, and went on to sell over 50 million copies worldwide. Michael was keen to use music video or short films as he called them to promote his singles from the album. He worked with the best directors and producers, using the latest technology and special effects.for the hit song 'Billie Jean' The short film 'Thriller' used the latest make-up artists technolgy combined with fantastic dancing and cherography, to produce a 14 minute video, with a start, a middle and an ending. So successful was this video that 'The Making Of Michael Jackson's Thriller' became the world's largest selling home video combined with soaring album sales. In 1983 Michael performed the now legendary moonwalk for the first time on the 'Motown 25 years' anniversary show. This performance alone set Michael undoubtable into the realm of a superstar.
In 1984 Michael won a record breaking 8 Grammy awards in one night. The awards were for his work on the 'Thriller' album and his work on the narrative for the 'ET Storybook'. On December 9th 1984 at the last concert of the Jackson's Victory Tour, Michael announced he was splitting from the group and going solo.
In 1987 Michael released his much awaited third solo album, titled 'Bad', and lauched his record breaking first solo world tour. 1988, Michael wrote his first autobiography talking for the first time on his childhood and his career. At the end of the 1980s Michael was named 'Artist Of The Decade' for his success off of his 'Thriller' and 'Bad' albums.
In 1991 Michael signed with Sony Music the largest ever recording contract and released his fourth solo album, 'Dangerous'. He toured world again in 1992, taking his concerts to countries that had never before been visited by a pop/rock artist. Also Michael founded the 'Heal the World Foundation' to help improve the lives of children across the world. In 1994 Michael married Lisa Marie Presley, daughter of rock legend Elvis Presley. The marriage only lasted for 19 months, as they divorced after 2 years.
1995 saw Michael release a fifth solo album, 'HIStory', which was a double album, first half new material and second half half greatest hits. Michael toured again over a legs covering a 2 year period. In between legs of the tour on November 14th 1996, Michael married for his second time to Debbie Rowe who was a nurse that Michael had met in the treatment of his skin pigment disorder. Together they had their first child Prince Michael Joseph Jackson jr born on February 13 1997 and a daughter Paris Michael Katherine Jackson born on April 3rd 1998. In 1997 Michael released the remix album 'Blood On The Dance Floor' which also contained 5 new song linked with a 38min film "Ghosts". This film Michael played 5 roles using the latest special effects and make-up artistry, combined with his dance and music.
In September, 2001 Michael celebrated his 30th anniversary as a solo artist with two concerts to be held in New York, USA. Many artists such as Whitney Houston, Usher, Destinys Child, Shaggy and many more performed there own and Michael Jacksons past songs. Michael then reunited with all of his brothers performed there biggest hits. Michael then went onto perform solo some of his biggest hits. In October 2001 Michael released the album 'Invincible' so far releasing only 2 singles including the big hit "You Rock My World". Since the release of this first single the album has been surrounded by rumours of a rift with Sony Music and a clear lack of promotion of the album. During the Invincible Era, 2000-2003, Michael would be honoured with many awards as “Artist of the Millennium”, and usher in new sounds for a new century.
Michael Jackson department on 25th June 2009.. just weeks before he was about to the greatest ever come back in history.. where he planned the World Tour 2009.. Infact he was working hard for to prepare for the tour. Although he is no more.. he always lives in the memory of millions of poeple throughout the world and he definitely lives in me..
Michael Jackson.. you and ur music.. will be with me.. until the last moment of my life.. May your soul rest in peace.. Wish to meet u one day..
Friday, June 26, 2009
I still remember the 1st day.. all new.. some blur.. some dont know whats happening... some thinking.. and asking themselves "what the hell am i doing here.. ? " even i myself.. as the coordinator.. almost gave up.. on the 3rd day.. it was like.. "Am i doing the right thing.. is this thing going on well.. am i gonna succeed.. ?? " these and many more questions in my head.. and many other things dwelling in my mind too..
However.. we all made it.. with the help of the people who created me.. like Nicky.. Shuk n DIn.. and also my my brothers.. Tharan.. Chee wei n Steve.. these r the people who really kept me strong.. kept me going.. coze.. in the process of the binding camp.. i made many sacrifices.. including ignoring someone people who r meaningful to me.. so that i could focus on what i'm doing.. and i wanted to make sure things go on well.. and it did.. the binding camp was a memorable one..
Then came the orientation.. for me.. on the 1st day.. i had an instinct that this time its gonna be something special.. coze i see something in the new freshies.. 1st 2 days.. Steve had a tough time on the stage.. i know exactly how he felt.. and i told him "Macha.. dont give up.. i believe in u.. n i believe we can do this.. ".. and thats the exact same thing i said to him on the last day.. when everything was over.. We did it.. we the OCs.. did it !.. for me.. it was an awesome orientation.. it will be remembered always..
To my OC family.. a family i have after my real family.. i really feel i belong to u guys.. i love each n every one of u.. i know.. i din get to know all of u well.. i wish i can.. this is our success.. each and every one of u made this happen.. i dunno.. this might be the last time as an OC.. i dunno.. not sure.. but.. if unfortunately.. i cant make it to the next orientation.. then.. the PASSION must be carried on by u guys.. the passion must not die.. the mmu cyber culture.. must carry on.. and last but not least.. Live with PASSION !!.. i love u all.. OCs rock !!
Remember.. Once an OC always an OC.. Live with passion !!
Saturday, May 9, 2009
How to Make a Woman Happy ?
It's not difficult to make a woman happy. A man only needs to be:
1. a friend
2. a companion
3. a lover
4. a brother
5. a father
6. a master
7. a chef
8. an electrician
9. a carpenter
10. a plumber
11. a mechanic
12. a decorator
13. a stylist
14. a sexologist
15. a gynecologist
16. a psychologist
17. a pest exterminator
18. a psychiatrist
19. a healer
20. a good listener
21. an organizer
22. a good father
23. very clean
WITHOUT FORGETTING TO :
45. give her compliments regularly
46. love shopping
47. be honest
48. be very rich
49. not stress her out
50. not look at other girls
AND AT THE SAME TIME, YOU MUST ALSO :
51. give her lots of attention, but expect little yourself
52. give her lots of time, especially time for herself
53. give her lots of space, never worrying about where she goes
IT IS VERY IMPORTANT :
54. Never to forget:
* arrangements she makes
and.. according to the article.. to make a man happy.. woman just need to love only him.. and cook him food.. :).. leave ur comments..
Monday, May 4, 2009
Open Relationship.. has 3 main definitions.. which are :
1. A relationship (often between two people) in which the participants are free to have sexual intercourse with other partners. If the couple making this agreement are married, it is then called an open marriage.
2. A relationship where both partners hide nothing from each other, including their past relationships and sexual experiences.
3. A relationship where both partners have agreed that monogamy, sexual fidelity or exclusivity are not expected. A polyamory relationship in which there may also be other lovers who are not partners in the given relationship. Most commonly, this refers to a primary couple who may have secondary relationships.
If u guys wonder what is Polyamory.. it means.. extension of a relationship by allowing bonds to form.. obviously more than one bond..
There are few types of Open Relationship.. which are :
1. A relationship that place strict restrictions on partners.. such relationships are polyamorous, but not open.
2. A relationship that permit sex outside the primary relationship, but not love.. such relationships are open, but not polyamorous ( Swinging )..
3. A relationship that do not accept the term of being in a relationship or not in a relationship.. they dont believe in it..
4. A relationship with 2 people that believe that they are capable and desirous of multiple loves.. whereas 'open relationship' is used as a logistical description: that is, it is how their polyamory is expressed or implemented..
So now.. i think.. we have a brief information about this Open Relationship term.. this term is a very popular culture.. In European countries.. mainly in Canada.. and Britain.. where there a lot of writings.. songs.. and books.. on it.. there are even sex educators that advocate on Open relationships.. Obviously it sounds so interesting n fun honestly.. but the question is.. Is it suitable for our Culture.. ?
So now.. If anyone of our frenz.. says that he or she is in an Open Relationship.. At least.. we know what they mean.. huhu.. Hopefully they know what it means too.. before they come up to such decision..
Wednesday, April 15, 2009
1/4 cup plus 2 tbsp nonfat ricotta, 2 tbsp slivered almonds, 1/2 cup berries and 2 tsp honey in 1 whole-grain wrap such as Flatout multigrain flatbread
5 oz plain yogurt, 4 walnut halves, 3 tbsp All-Bran, 1/4 cup granola and 3/4 cup cubed melon
BACON, EGG AND CHEESE MUFFIN
Scramble 1 large egg in 1 tsp margarine and place on a toasted whole-grain English muffin spread with 1 tsp margarine. Top with 1 slice cooked turkey bacon and 2 tbsp shredded reduced-fat cheddar. Serve with 3/4 cup berries, 1/4 cup lowfat vanilla yogurt and 12 oz skim latte.
10 cooked shrimp, 1/3 avocado, sliced, 1 tbsp slivered almonds, 2 tbsp each diced red onion and carrot, 1 tbsp prepared sesame dressing, tossed with 2 cups greens; 3 whole-grain crispbreads.
TANGY TURKEY PITA
3 oz turkey breast, 5 olives, 3 tbsp feta, 2 tbsp each diced cucumber and tomato, 6 spinach leaves, 1 tbsp olive oil and 2 tsp balsamic vinegar in 1 whole-wheat pita; 1 large orange.
3 tbsp almond butter, 1/2 large pear, sliced, 1/8 tsp cinnamon on 2 slices whole-wheat bread. Serve with the other half of the pear.
FISH AND FRIES
4 oz cod rubbed with 1 tsp olive oil, seared (2 to 3 minutes per side); 12 Alexia Sweet Potato Fries, baked as directed on package; 1 1/2 cups sliced cabbage tossed with 2 tbsp reduced-fat dressing.
1/3 cup chopped onion, 2 cups chopped zucchini, 1/2 cup red bell pepper, chopped, and 1/2 cup chickpeas sautéed in 1 tbsp olive oil. Mix with 1 cup cooked ziti, 2 tbsp Parmesan.
3/4 cup cubed, cooked, skinless chicken mixed with 1 1/2 cups cooked Near East Whole Grain Wheat Pilaf drizzled with 1 tbsp olive oil; 1 cup steamed cauliflower with 1 tbsp lemon juice and 2 tbsp fresh parsley
Turkey and cheese roll-up
1 oz sliced turkey breast, 1 oz sliced reduced-fat cheddar rolled up.
Chocolate milk with nuts
1 cup light chocolate soymilk, 13 pistachios
Orange spritzer and almonds
8 oz orange juice mixed with 4 oz sparkling water; 7 almonds
Try it out.. It seems can lose pounds in a week.. :)
Tuesday, March 10, 2009
Current Sign : Pisces (Feb 20 - March 20)
Snap out of the reverie.. When you can stop dreaming..
Opposite sign : Virgo
Color : Sea green and mauve
*You can be everything your woman wants you to be-or everything she does not want
you to be. You are not weak. It's just that you may linger too long on a fading dream
and miss the bright sunlight of success.
* It is difficult for you to let go of your dream, so you try to work out a nice
compromise. Your fancy dream fits nicely into your daily routine. You will never be
short of romance. Everything said and done, you expect technical loyalty. You are
extremely sympathetic to friends, but there are times when your loneliness may kill
you. These spells of depression cause the gloom to gather.
* You have implicit faith that any man is invincible. You come out of the illusion soon
enough, and what you actually see surprises you.
* You adapt beautifully and quietly to conflicting situations. The hardest lesson you
have to learn is letting go of your timidity. You will give all of her heart to your
children, you will love them all. You will sacrifice anything so your children can have
what you were denied as a child. You may be too permissive. Administering discipline
is difficult for you. You may be a wee bit extravagant, but you know how to keep a
tight leash on your finances.
Love Sign : Sagittarius
Whoever coined the term "dream lover" must have been thinking of you, for you
often have your head in the clouds. Once back to Earth, you will pursue affairs of the
heart slowly and carefully, your aesthetic sensibilities finely tuned. The mystery tour
of romance with you can be most unpredictable, with hearts one day and flowers the
Scorpio in Relationship
You exhibit an easygoing, go-with-the-flow quality, which is a boon to relationships.
Your relationship with your lover is characterized by imagination, sensitivity and great
emotions, and you sometimes wear your heart on your sleeve. Because of this, a
lover who can protect you and make you feel safe is ideal. Giving is also paramount
your mind, yet sometimes you run the risk of giving too much, thanks to your selfless
Lucky Gem: Cat's Eye
Lucky number :10
Lucky color : Scarlet
Lucky Day : Monday
Actor, Charity worker, Chemist, Designer, Photographer, Poet, Secret agent..
Complex and idealistic, you are the dreamer of the zodiac, forever searching for that
something special, over the next rainbow. Even if you seem to have it all, you will
never end your quest. Exploring your spirit, both mentally and physically, is a favorite
pastime with you. Although you may appear careless, you are actually quite good
with money. It's not important to you, though -- your dreams are. Many dreams,
sadly, require money if they are to become a reality, so you are often compelled to
achieve financial success for the greater good. You rarely worry about money,
perhaps because you either inherit wealth or marry into it! It's safe to say you enjoy
having money around, because it helps to fund your causes. You simply cannot say
no when someone asks you for money, yet you never keep track of where the money
went! Some things are forever hazy with you...
Wednesday, February 4, 2009
There was an ancient Roman Emperor.. Claudius II.. believed unmarried men made better soldiers.. so he banned young men from marrying.. Saint Valentine.. a priest.. felt this was an injustice to young lovers and performed marriages in secret.. When Claudius II found out about this.. Valentine was ordered to death.. so the day was remembered for him..
Then.. there is Cupid.. He was the God of Love in Roman Mythology.. his mother was Venus.. There is a story where Venus was jealous of the beauty of a mortal.. named Psyche.. Venus sent Cupid to punish Psyche for her good looks.. but Cupid fell in love with her instead..
Saint Valentine.. who upon rejection by his mistress was so heartbroken that he took a knife to his chest and sent her his still-beating heart as a token of his undying love for her..
There is 10 days more for the day.. those out there.. who are planning to tell someone that u love that person.. think !! sit down and think !! do u really love that person.. coze the word LOVE is not a simple word to just say it around.. or to simply play with someone's feelings.. coze that someone might really truly love u.. and u will be kidding around without realising that one day u gonna hurt that person.. love is not a game.. say I LOVE YOU.. only if u really love a person..
or is it just a passing feeling
am I not convinced?
a bit uncertain of the feeling
Is it the way you make me feel?
so warm with joy and laughter
or could it be the happiness
from moments spent together
The lasting bliss, the kiss I miss,
The sweetest thoughts without a touch
The heart that hurts and bears a scar
thinking how far away you are
You're on my mind most of the day
And at night I go to bed and pray
An angel soft and gentle as you
Would make my sweetest dreams come true
Thinking about you alone or in class
Writing your name on my bathroom window glass
Wishing you were here
To love hold and care
Wishing I had you with me
To cherish and to stare
Into your soft and beautiful eyes
As we both travel to the skies
And mingle with the stars above
But is it really love ?
May God bless everyone with true love and happiness
Tuesday, January 13, 2009
2. Is there any changes in him after sex?
Wednesday, January 7, 2009
Its here finally.. and we would love to thank our directors.. crew members.. and everyone who gave us support and still giving us support.. this is a chance.. we all took.. to make things different.. and we will always need support and blessings from everyone.. 10q.. Watch out for it soon..
Thursday, January 1, 2009
Christmas was fun.. from morning 10am.. people start visiting my house.. until nite.. it was indeed a tiring day.. and it was another wonderful christmas.. a lot my frenz came.. 10q to those.. who came to visit me.. and 1oq to those who wished me.. I came back to cyber.. the next day of christmas.. coze din wanna trouble my mum.. want her to rest.. coze.. she was extremely tired after a long day of christmas.. if i am at home.. she will be cooking for me again.. so i din wanna trouble her..
Few of my good frenz got married too.. couldnt attend their wedding.. felt a bit sad but its ok.. May God bless them with true love.. happiness and wonderful children..
Then came new year eve.. actually I had a photo shoot for a new movie and after that.. we planned to go and eat.. after eating.. we dont know what to do.. so.. we decided.. to just go to the curve and chill there.. so we did.. we saw the fireworks.. which was really cool.. and thats when i shouted the line which is the title of this post.. haha.. actually its true.. its 2009 and we r still alive.. and a definite thanks to the almighty God.. who keep us safe and sound throughout 2008..
As for my frenz and readers.. I have few things to say.. new year.. is a new day.. and a new beginning ONLY if.. u want it to be a new beginning.. if not its just another normal day.. so.. if u wanna set a new year resolution.. then.. make sure.. achieve it.. and from me.. i would say that.. this year is gonna change my life i guess.. i hope so.. lets face it.. live it and see..
I received few wishes which were really meaningful.. and i would like to share it here.. "The winning horse doesnt know why it runs in the race.. but.. it knows.. it runs faster coze of the beats and pain.. the larger the pain are.. the stronger u become.. Life is like a race.. God is the Jockey.. the harder he beats u.. the stronger he makes u to win.. so dont be distressed.. be a winning horse.. Life is difficult.. but its always possible.. "
My respected dad told me something which was very meaningful too.. " Face ur past without regrets.. Handle ur present with confidence.. Prepare for the future without fear.. Keep the faith and drop the fear.. believe ur doubts n never doubt ur beliefs.. Life is wonderful if u know how to live it.. "
2008 was a eventful year.. a lot of things happened.. ups and downs.. sadness and happiness.. it was a nice blend.. and surely wont be forgotten.. and I hope this year.. is gonna be fantastic.. and lets cruise through it.. Happy New Year 2009.. all the best.. and May God bless u all..