Saturday, May 9, 2009

Interesting Matter.. Must Read !!

I came across this interesting article.. which was funny.. and kinda true i guess.. what u all think about it ?

How to Make a Woman Happy ?

It's not difficult to make a woman happy. A man only needs to be:

1. a friend

2. a companion
3. a lover
4. a brother
5. a father
6. a master
7. a chef
8. an electrician
9. a carpenter
10. a plumber
11. a mechanic
12. a decorator
13. a stylist
14. a sexologist
15. a gynecologist
16. a psychologist
17. a pest exterminator
18. a psychiatrist
19. a healer
20. a good listener
21. an organizer
22. a good father
23. very clean
24. sympathetic
25. athletic
26. warm
27. attentive
28. gallant
29. intelligent
30. funny
31. creative
32. tender
33. strong
34. understanding
35. tolerant
36. prudent
37. ambitious
38. capable
39. courageous
40. determined
41. true
42. dependable
43. passionate
44. compassionate


45. give her compliments regularly
46. love shopping
47. be honest
48. be very rich
49. not stress her out
50. not look at other girls


51. give her lots of attention, but expect little yourself
52. give her lots of time, especially time for herself
53. give her lots of space, never worrying about where she goes


54. Never to forget:
* birthdays
* anniversaries
* arrangements she makes

and.. according to the article.. to make a man happy.. woman just need to love only him.. and cook him food.. :).. leave ur comments..

Monday, May 4, 2009

Open Relationship ???

Good to be here after so long.. Well.. Today while going out for a drink with my frenz.. the term Open Relationship came up during the conversation.. but.. none of us.. could really tell what is it actually about.. so.. what to do.. ? when we dont know about something.. we should find out.. rite? Lets see what i found out..

Open Relationship.. has 3 main definitions.. which are :

1. A relationship (often between two people) in which the participants are free to have sexual intercourse with other partners. If the couple making this agreement are married, it is then called an open marriage.

2. A relationship where both partners hide nothing from each other, including their past relationships and sexual experiences.

3. A relationship where both partners have agreed that monogamy, sexual fidelity or exclusivity are not expected. A polyamory relationship in which there may also be other lovers who are not partners in the given relationship. Most commonly, this refers to a primary couple who may have secondary relationships.

If u guys wonder what is Polyamory.. it means.. extension of a relationship by allowing bonds to form.. obviously more than one bond..

There are few types of Open Relationship.. which are :

1. A relationship that place strict restrictions on partners.. such relationships are polyamorous, but not open.

2. A relationship that permit sex outside the primary relationship, but not love.. such relationships are open, but not polyamorous ( Swinging )..

3. A relationship that do not accept the term of being in a relationship or not in a relationship.. they dont believe in it..

4. A relationship with 2 people that believe that they are capable and desirous of multiple loves.. whereas 'open relationship' is used as a logistical description: that is, it is how their polyamory is expressed or implemented..

So now.. i think.. we have a brief information about this Open Relationship term.. this term is a very popular culture.. In European countries.. mainly in Canada.. and Britain.. where there a lot of writings.. songs.. and books.. on it.. there are even sex educators that advocate on Open relationships.. Obviously it sounds so interesting n fun honestly.. but the question is.. Is it suitable for our Culture.. ?

So now.. If anyone of our frenz.. says that he or she is in an Open Relationship.. At least.. we know what they mean.. huhu.. Hopefully they know what it means too.. before they come up to such decision..