99 Facts About Guyz

It has been a very long time since I post anything in here. So, tonite i decide to post something long and interesting that I came across recently. Of course anyone can read this post.. but.. this post is specially for all the girls out there.. so girls.. dont forget to read this :)

So here are the facts..

1. Guys don’t actually look after good-looking girls. They prefer neat and presentable girls.

2. Guys hate flirts.

3. A guy can like you for a minute, and then forget you afterwards.

4. When a guy says he doesn’t understand you, it simply means you’re not thinking the way he is.

5. “Are you doing something?” or “Have you eaten already?” are the first usual questions a guy asks on the phone just to get out from stammering.

6. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.

7. When a guy really likes you, he’ll disregard all your bad characteristics.

8. Guys go crazy over a girl’s smile.

9. Guys will do anything just to get the girl’s attention.

10. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend.

11. When guys want to meet your parents. Let them.

12. Guys want to tell you many things but they can’t. And they sure have one habit to gain courage and spirit to tell you many things and it is drinking!

13. Guys cry!!!

14. Don’t provoke the guy to heat up. Believe me. He will.

15. Guys can never dream and hope too much.

16. Guys usually try hard to get the girl who has dumped them, and this makes it harder for them to accept their defeat.

17. When you touch a guy’s heart, there’s no turning back.

18. Giving a guy a hanging message like “You know what? Uh…never mind!” would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking.

19. Guys go crazy when girls touch their hands.

20. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.

21. When a guy makes a prolonged “umm” or makes any excuses when you’re asking him to do you a favor, he’s actually saying that he doesn’t like you and he can’t lay down the card for you.

22. When a girl says “no”, a guy hears it as “try again tomorrow.”

23. You have to tell a guy what you really want before he gets the message clearly.

24. Guys hate nice boy!

25. Guys love their moms.

26. A guy would sacrifice his money for lunch just to get you a couple of roses.

27. A guy often thinks about the girl who likes him. But this doesn’t mean that the guy likes her.

28. You can never understand him unless you listen to him.

29. If a guy tells you he loves you once in a lifetime. He does.

30. Beware. Guys can make gossips scatter through half of the face of the earth faster than girls can.

31. Like Eve, girls are guys’ weaknesses.

32. Guys are very open about themselves.

33. Its good to test a guy first before you believe him. But don’t let him wait that long.

34. No guy is bad when he is courting

35. Guys hate it when their clothes get dirty. Even a small dot.

36. Guys really admire girls that they like even if they’re not that much pretty.

37. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.

38. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don’t need to give advice.

39. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.

40. A guy finds ways to keep you off from linking with someone else.

41. Guys love girls with brains more than girls in miniskirts.

42. Guys try to find the stuffed toy a girl wants but would unluckily get the wrong one.

43. Guys virtually brag about anything.

44. Guys cannot keep secrets that girls tell them.

45. Guys think too much.

46. Guys’ fantasies are unlimited.

47. Girls’ height doesn’t really matter to a guy but her weight does!

48. Guys tend to get serious with their relationship and become too possessive. So watch out girls!!!

49. When a girl makes the boy suffer during courtship, it would be hard for him to let go of that girl.

50. It’s not easy for a guy to let go of his girlfriend after they broke up especially when they’ve been together for 3 years or more.

51. You have to tell a guy what you really want before getting involved with that guy.

52. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he’s too-good-never-been-busted

, never been in love and hurt, he won’t be matured and grow up.

53. When an unlikable circumstance comes, guys blame themselves a lot more than girls do. They could even hurt themselves physically.

54. Guys have strong passion to change but have weak will power.

55. Guys are tigers in their peer groups but become tamed pussycats with their girlfriends.

56. When a guy pretends to be calm, check if he’s sweating. You’ll probably see that he is nervous.

57. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl. He really is.

58. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he’s just actually saying, “Please come and listen to me”

59. Guys don’t really have final decisions.

60. When a guy loves you, bring out the best in him.

61. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him.

62. If a guy has been kept shut or silent, say something.

63. Guys believe that there’s no such thing as love at first sight, but court the girls anyway and then realize at the end that he is wrong.

64. Guys like femininity not feebleness.

65. Guys don’t like girls who punch harder than they do.

66. A guy may instantly know if the girl likes him but can never be sure unless the girl tells him.

67. A guy would waste his time over video games and basketball, the way a girl would do over her romance novels and make-ups.

68. Guys love girls who can cook or bake.

69. Guys like girls who are like their moms. No kidding!

70. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.

71. A guy’s friend knows everything about him. Use this to your advantage.

72. Don’t be a snob. Guys may easily give up on the first sign of rejection.

73. Don’t be biased. Try loving a guy without prejudice and you’ll be surprised.

74. Girls who bathe in their eau de perfumes do more repelling than attracting guys.

75. Guys are more talkative than girls are especially when the topic is about girls.

76. Guys don’t comprehend the statement “Get lost” too well.

77. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions but still love them more.

78. When a guy gives a crooked or pretentious grin at your jokes, he finds them offending and he just tried to be polite.

79. Guys don’t care about how shiny their shoes are unlike girls.

80. Guys tend to generalize about girls but once they get to know them, they’ll realize they’re wrong.

81. Any guy can handle his problems all by his own. He’s just too stubborn to deal with it.

82. Guys find it so objectionable when a girl swears.

83. Guys’ weakest point is at the knee.

84. When a problem arises, a guy usually keeps himself cool but is already thinking of a way out.

85. When a guy is conscious of his looks, it shows he is not good at fixing things.

86. When a guy looks at you, either he’s amazed of you or he’s criticizing you.

87. When you catch him cheating on you and he asks for a second chance, give it to him. But when you catch him again and he asks for another chance, ignore him.

88. If a guy lets you go, he really loves you.

89. If you have a boyfriend, and your boy best friend always glances at you and it obviously shows that he is jealous whenever you’re with your boyfriend, all I can say is your boy best friend loves you more than your boyfriend does.

90. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.

91. You can tell if a guy is really hurt or in pain when he cries in front of you!

92. If a guy suddenly asks you for a date, ask him first why.

93. When a guy says he can’t sleep if he doesn’t hear your voice even just for one night, hang up. He also tells that to another girl. He only flatters you and sometimes makes fun of you.

94. You can truly say that a guy has good intentions if you see him praying sometimes.

95. Guys seek for advice not from a guy but from a girl.

96. Girls are allowed to touch boys’ things. Not their hair!

97. If a guy says you’re beautiful, that guy likes you.

98. Guys hate girls who overreact.

99. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships.


Thank you for reading.. Have a nice day :)
Dr.Love

Break Ups.. Break thru it..

Break Ups Suck! You give all you have to a relationship.. You give your heart to an individual.. You count on them to make you whole.. Then it's all over.. and just like that.. you are left a 'half'.. incomplete.. non-sufficient.. That really hurts !!

BUT.. If you think about it.. when you were in a relationship there must have been.. in some part of it.. a time when you wished you were single.. Right? Sometimes we envy those who are 'free' when we are not.. and we envy those who are 'in a relationship' when we are not.. Break Ups hurts.. yes.. but being single has a lot of great things to say about it !!

Its hard to get out of it.. but.. always say to urself.. that its not the end of the world.. and the person is not lucky enuff to have you in their life.. Love urself instead..

Its rewarding.. to find someone you like.. but it is essential to like yourself.. It is quickening to recognize that someone is a good and decent human being.. but it is indispensable to view yourself as acceptable.. It is a delight to discover people who are worthy of respect and admiration and love.. but it is vital to believe yourself deserving of these things.. For you cannot live in someone else.. You cannot find yourself in someone else.. You cannot be given a life by someone else.. Of all the people you will know in a lifetime.. you are the only one you will never leave or lose.. To the question of your life.. you are the only answer.. To the problems of your life.. you are the only solution..

Its hard.. but its all in you.. :)

A New Beginning..

After a roller coaster ride in 2010 which ended up bad for me.. Here we are in the new year.. 2011.. which seems to start well.. with a new employment.. great environment.. and not to forget great colleagues.. although i have been here for many years.. it feels so fresh and new.. Lets hope for the best.. :)

Nobody can go back and start a new beginning.. but anyone can start today and make a new ending..

All glory comes from daring to begin..

May God bless everyone around me.. and people of the globe..

Nice Story..

From the very beginning, girl's family objected strongly on her dating this guy, saying that it has got to do with family background, & that the girl will have to suffer fo...r the rest of her life if she were to be with him. Due to family's pressure, the couple quarreled very often. Though the girl loved the guy deeply, she always asked him: "How deep is your love for me?" As the guy is not good with his words, this often caused the girl to be very upset. With that & the family's pressure, the gal often vents her anger on him.

As for him, he only endured it in silence. After a couple of years, the guy finally graduated & decided to further his studies overseas. Before leaving, he proposed to the gal: "I'm not very good with words. But all I know is that I love you. If you allow me, I will take care of you for the rest of my life. As for your family, I'll try my best to talk them round. Will you marry me?" The girl agreed, & with the guy's determination, the family finally gave in & agreed to let them get married. So before he left, they got engaged. The gal went out to the working society, whereas the guy was overseas, continuing his studies.

They sent their love through emails & phone calls. Though it was hard, but both never thought of giving up. One day, while the gal was on her way to work, she was knocked down by a car that lost control. When she woke up, she saw her parents beside her bed. She realized that she was badly injured. Seeing her mum crying, she wanted to comfort her. But she realized that all that could come out of her mouth was just a sigh. She had lost her voice.... The doctors say that the impact on her brain has caused her to lose her voice. Listening to her parents' comfort, but with nothing coming out from her, she broke down. During the stay in hospital, besides silence cry, it's still just silence cry that accompanied her. Upon reaching home, everything seems to be the same.

Except for the ringing tone of the phone. Which pierced into her heart every time it rang? She does not wish to let the guy know. & not wanting to be a burden to him, she wrote a letter to him saying that she does not wish to wait any longer. With that, she sent the ring back to him. In return, the guy sent >millions & millions of reply, countless of phone calls, all the gal could do, besides crying, is still crying....

The parents decided to move away, hoping that she could eventually forget everything & be happy. With a new environment, the gal learns sign language & started a new life. Telling herself everyday that she must forget the guy. One day, her friend came & told her that he's back. She asked her friend not to let him know what happened to her. Since then, there wasn't anymore news of him. A year has passed & her friend came with an envelope, containing an invitation card for the guy's wedding. The gal was shattered.

When she opens the letter, she saw her name in it instead. When she was about to ask her friend what's going on, she saw the guy standing in front of her. He used sign language to tell her "I've spent a year to learn sign language. Just to let you know that I've not forgotten our promise. Let me have the chance to be your voice. I Love You." With that, he slipped the ring back into her finger. The gal finally smiled.

Treat every relationship as if it's the last one, then you'll know how to give. Treat every moment as is it's the last day, and then you'll know how to treasure. Treasure what you have right now, or else you will regret one day...

Say it when u feel like saying it..

10th grade

As I sat there in English class, I stared at the girl next to me. She was my so called "best friend". I stared at her long, silky hair, and wished she was mine. But she didn't notice me like that, and I knew it. After class, she walked up to me and asked me for the notes she had missed the day before and handed them to her. She said "thanks" and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I wanted to tell her, I want her to know that I don't want to be just friends, I love her but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why.

11th grade

The phone rang. On the other end, it was her. She was in tears, mumbling on and on about how her love had broke her heart. She asked me to come over because she didn't want to be alone, so I did. As I sat next to her on the sofa, I stared at her soft eyes, wishing she was mine. After 2 hours, one Drew Barrymore movie, and three bags of chips, she decided to go to sleep. She looked at me, said "thanks" and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I don't want to be just friends, I love her but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why.

Senior year

The day before prom she walked to my locker. My date is sick" she said; he's not going to go well, I didn't have a date, and in 7th grade, we made a promise that if neither of us had dates, we would go together just as "best friends". So we did. Prom night, after everything was over, I was standing at her front door step. I stared at her as she smiled at me and stared at me with her crystal eyes. I want her to be mine, but she isn't think of me like that, and I know it. Then she said "I had the best time, thanks!" and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I don't want to be just friends, I love her but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why.

Graduation Day

A day passed, then a week, then a month. Before I could blink, it was graduation day. I watched as her perfect body floated like an angel up on stage to get her diploma. I wanted her to be mine, but she didn't notice me like that, and I knew it. Before everyone went home, she came to me in her smock and hat, and cried as I hugged her. Then she lifted her head from my shoulder and said, "you're my best friend, thanks" and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I don't want to be just friends, I love her but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why.

A Few Years Later

Now I sit in the pews of the church. That girl is getting married now. I watched her say "I do" and drive off to her new life, married to another man. I wanted her to be mine, but she didn't see me like that, and I knew it. But before she drove away, she came to me and said "you came!". She said "thanks" and kissed me on the cheek. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I don't want to be just friends, I love her but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why.

Funeral

Years passed, I looked down at the coffin of a girl who used to be my "best friend". At the service, they read a diary entry she had wrote in her high school years. This is what it read: I stare at him wishing he was mine, but he doesn't notice me like that, and I know it. I want to tell him, I want him to know that I don't want to be just friends, I love him but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why. I wish he would tell me he loved me! `I wish I did too...` I thought to my self, and I cried.

What is LOVE ???

Hi people.. It has been some time since i post anything here.. Now its time to post something interesting..
I'm sure everyone of you wondered.. What is Love actually.. ? I have been doing a lot of reading.. and here is what i've found..

How do you define love ?

Some say it's mysterious.. magical.. complex.. dificult.. imaginary.. through-provoking.. inspirational.. intuitional.. joyous.. immeasurable.. ecstacy.. and undefinable.. Perhaps.

"Love is a feeling directed at someone which acknowledges their goodness." - Dr. John Gray

"The willful intent to serve the well being of another." - M. Scott Peck

Love is patient.. Love is kind.. It does not envy.. it does not boast.. it is not proud.. It is not rude.. It is not self-seeking.. It is not easily angered.. It keeps no record of wrongs.. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.. It always protects.. always trusts.. always hopes.. always perseveres.. - Corinthians 13 : 5 - 7

To decribe love is very difficult.. for the same reason that words cannot fully describe a flavour of an orange.. You have to taste the fruit to know its flavour.. So with love.. - Paramahansa Yogananda

Love itself is a universal experience.. Yet.. every individual occurrence.. while perhaps bound by common threads.. seems absolutely unique.. Love is what love is.. To everyone it express itself differently..

All you need is love ! - The Beatles

Love is the answer for all questions !

It is important to stand in love.. not fall into it..

Love is waking up to find the object of your affection in the dream you were having asleep on your shoulder..

Could it be that love is a story that can never be fully expressed ?

Love is seeing an imperfect person perfectly - Sam Keen

Love is a bond or connection between two people that results in trust.. intimacy.. and an interdependence that enhances both partners..

Love is the ability and willingness to allow those you care for to be what they choose for themselves.. without any insistence that they satisfy you.. - Leo Buscaglia

Making love is the highest level and the most loving way we can physically express our love for our love partner.. Everyone knows that the sexual experience can be the single most loving.. most exciting.. most powerful.. most exhilarating.. most renewing.. most energizing.. most affirming.. most intimate.. most uniting.. most stress-relieving.. most recreative physical experience of which humans are capable..

Love is friendship set on fire.. - Jeremy Taylor

If you would be loved.. love and be lovable.. - Benjamin Franklin

When you tell someone something bad about yourself and you're scared they wont love you anymore.. But then you get surprised because not only do they still love you.. they love you even more.. - Matthew ( 7 yrs )

Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day.. Mary Ann ( 4 yrs )

Logic says everything in this world has a cause and effect.. True love is the only feeling which is its own cause and its own effect.. It is something illogical and yet above all logic.. I love her coze I love her.. and I love her so I love her.. - Prateek Kumar

Love is comforting someone in need of love and having them know that somebody cares..

Love is looking past imperfections in your partner and seeing the beautiful person inside.. True love seeks the happiness and well being of your partner.. Love expresses itself in the mutual respect you demonstrate to your partner..

Love is like letting your partner have the TV remote for 30 days.. - For The Guys

Love must be experienced.. Its meaning is infinite and can never be totally defined..

The opposite of love is fear.. Think about it..

The is no fear in love.. but perfect love cast out fear.. John 4 : 1

God is love..

Love is loving someone without expecting anything in return.. no judgments.. no restrictions.. no limitation.. no expectations..

True love is the nature of bliss..

Love is expressed when you are being someone who loves someone for who they are.. not who you think they should be..

Love is embracing differences and discovering ways in which to build a common lifestyle.. share decision-making.. and taking equal responsibility for the results..

I was nauseous and tingly all over.. I was either in Love or I had small pox.. - Woody Allen

Love seeks no cause beyond itself and no fruit.. it is its own fruit.. its own enjoyment.. I love because I love.. I love in order that I may love.. - St. Bernard

Teach only love for that is what you are..

Love is a decision..

If you want love.. you must first love.. love begets love.. you cannot deliver from an empty wagon.. you must first learn to love yourself before you can give love..

Love is not manipulative.. It must never be used to get others to do what you want.. when you love someone you never ask them to sacrifice a part of themselves in the name of love.. This form of manipulation contaminates our love for another..

Cant buy me love.. - The Beatles

Love is to like with a great intensity..

True love has a foundation of integrity.. respect.. faith.. and trust.. Love is the force that brings about unity and harmony..

Celebrate love.. Larry James

Although love is at the root of our basic nature.. love for another human being must be cultivated.. it takes time for love to mature..

Is your love free and unconditional.. or is it mixed with various needs.. conditions.. and demands from your partner ?

The road to self-discovery is paved with Love..

Hatred paralyzes life.. love releases it..
Hatred paralyzes life.. love harmonizes it..
Hatred darkens life.. love illuminates it.. - Martin Luther King, Jr.

Love has no meaning other than the meaning we give it..

Perhaps.. Love just Is.. While in its allness and in its nothingness.. all we need to do is simply let it be..

Love is that condition whereby the happiness of another is essential to your own.. - Robert Heinlein

To demonstrate love.. say.. I love you.. outloud.. at least each day to someone you love.. There is a magic in these 3 little words.. Saying I love you.. is the most beautiful gift you can give to your partner.. these words are the most treasured a person can hear..

One must understand whether " what is love" can be a question which can be answered ? Love cannot be a question.. For it is a question then an answer should be there.. If the answer is there.. where is it ? This question is ancient and an answer should have been found by now.. If the answer has been found.. the question would have disappeared..

But the question still remains.. meaning the answer has not been found.. If is has not been found as yet.. then what is the certainty that it will be found ? Maybe the mind can never find the answer.. A single answer.. which will please all minds.. is not possible for each mind has its own ideas of love.. Hence a universal answer is an illusion..

Individual answers are there for love and for this very reason there are arguments about the love for each mind will contradict the answer of another mind.. This contradiction is normal for each mind lives in a different point in time.. Hence.. "what is love" is an illusionary question.. which has no answer ! - Dr.Vijai

Those are wonderful definitions and opinions about what is love all about..

Well.. for me.. i would say that.. Love is you.. Love is me.. Love is everyone.. without love.. we would not be here..

The world in one word.. Love ! One word all around the world.. Love !

Love is a Gift of God.. Ignore or Misuse it and you may suffer as u can't imagine.. Love should be true.. Love should be Godly.. and Love should be unconditional.. - Alvin Martin a.k.a. Dr.Love

Walk In Audition..

Hello it has been a long while since i came here.. but i'm back.. Dr.Love is back with higher knowledge.. Ok.. 1st things 1st..

There is an audition that i think you people might be interested in.. Check out the poster that i attached.. There are many roles available.. and i think you all should not miss this opportunity.. U may bring your friends too..

Regards,

Dr.Love