Tuesday, November 25, 2014

The Pain Of Being In Love With Someone Who Will Never Love You Back

Love is the best teacher. From it, you will learn more than you could possibly ever learn in a classroom or from a book. The reason for this is rather simple — we feel more when we’re in love.

Human beings learn through their senses as well as through the way they process and interpret the information taken in by those senses.

When we find ourselves in love, the chemicals released by our brains paired with the emotional sensations we experience allow us to experience life in hyperdrive. We feel more alive and take in more of the world around us.

Being in love is the greatest high on the planet. It’s the most natural of highs, as it’s produced by our own bodies, as well as being the longest lasting high on the planet.
It increases our senses and allows us to both take in more information and process that information under a more positive light.

Our imaginations tend to get the best of us when we’re in love, creating alternative realities where our fantasies are born. Love helps us both focus more on the world around us while basically forcing us to spend more time in our own heads.

Until you fall in love, you don’t know what it means to live. Well, to be more exact, until you fall in love and have your heart broken, you don’t know what it means to live. Furthermore, until you have your heart broken, you won’t understand what it means to truly love.
As human beings, we learn best from loss. We come to understand the importance and value of both people and things, by losing them.

Sure, we can imagine how it must feel to lose a person we love, but until we actually lose, or are at risk of losing, this person, we never fully understand how important he or she is to us.
We learn by losing. We learn when we are beaten by others, when our best efforts aren’t good enough, when we don’t make the cut, and when we fail. Success is no teacher. In fact, success can often do more harm than good — especially when it wasn’t worked for or earned.
But loss… when you lose something, you instantly become aware of the now vacant space in your life that was once filled with something beautiful — even if that something beautiful was only the dream of having that which you now know you won’t have. And it hurts.
Love can teach you just about everything you need to know about life. For example, it can teach you that sometimes no matter how much you love a person, that person simply won’t love you back.

It can teach you that there are many levels to loving and that each and every person loves a little differently. It can also teach you that sometimes you have no choice but to love someone who will never love you as much as you love him or her.
We often talk about unconditional love, as if it were a real thing. The truth is that there is no such thing as unconditional love; we all love conditionally. However, having someone love you back is not one of those necessary conditions.

In fact, we often fall in love and continue to love those who don’t love us back as passionately. We all love that which we can’t have, and if we find someone that doesn’t want us it only makes us more desperate to have that someone.

That’s a bitch, ain’t it? You fall in love with someone who doesn’t love you back and knowing he or she is trying to push you away only makes you want to latch on tighter. The more that person tells you he or she doesn’t want you, the more your imagination concocts ways of making that person fall for you.

I speak from experience… as people, we are capable of chasing the person we are in love with for years and years on end to no avail. Every time we are turned down, we fall in love a little deeper. Or so we think.

Most of us have a difficult time distinguishing between romantic love and love itself. Romantic love is more a sort of obsession than it is anything else, and it’s romantic love that makes us want that which we can’t have.

Romantic love is what turns our imaginations on high and makes it impossible to start thinking about that one special person. The best part of it all is that we love being in love romantically, no matter how much it hurts.

Being in love with someone who will never love you as much as you love him or her shakes you to your core, but you love it. Don’t get me wrong, it hurts. It hurts a whole lot. At the same time, it makes you feel more alive. It makes you feel more “in the moment.”
It opens you up to a side of life and a side of yourself that you didn’t previously know existed. It’s the sort of pain that you never forget, but at the same time look back at with a sort of fondness and sense of nostalgia.

There’s a fine line between pain and pleasure. Romantic love walks that line.

by Paul Hudson

Sunday, December 29, 2013

10 Food That Burns Fat

1. Oats
Its not only tastes great but also reduces your hunger. Oats contains fiber which helps and stabilizes the levels of cholesterol.

2. Eggs
Eggs are the rich sources of proteins and low in calories. Eggs helps us to build the muscles and develops the good cholesterol.

3. Apples
Apples are enriched with powerful antioxidants and other supplements. Most importantly it contains Pectin which helps to reduce the fat cells in the body.

4. Green Chillies
Green chillies contains Capsaicin which helps to develop the body growth cells and burns the calories in quick time.

5. Garlic
Garlic contains Allicin which has anti-bacterial properties helps us to reduce the fat and removes the bad cholesterol.

6. Honey
Honey is the best one to burn fat. Add honey in warm water and take it daily in the early morning.

7. Green Tea
Green Tea is the most effective one which helps you to lose weight. It contains Antioxidants which helps and stabilizes our body weight.Take daily 2 cups of tea for a better results.

8. Wheat Grass
It boosts our metabolism and helps to reduce the fat.

9. Tomatoes
Tomatoes helps us to burn the fat in quick time. It also helps us to stay away from cancer. So Take tomatoes in your diet regularly.

10. Dark Chocolate
Dark chocolate contains Flavonoids, anti-inflammatory properties which helps to reduce the cholesterol levels in the blood. It boost the growth of serotonin in the blood and also burns the fat.

I've just got these info.. so I thought it would be nice to share it.. :)  Have a nice day !!

Wednesday, October 30, 2013

Difference between dating a Boy and a Man

I have been quiet for a long time. I would like to post something today and decide to post something for the ladies. I think this will be an interesting one. Have fun.

Girls are attracted to boys and Women are attracted to Man. So, lets see what are the difference between them.

  1. A man knows what he wants, and goes for it. A boy may have somewhat of an idea, but not really. He doesn’t think too much about it, and even if he does, doesn’t exert much effort to get it. A boy is passive, a man is assertive. 
  2. A man plans for his future and is working towards building a foundation and infrastructure in order to have a family (at some point in his life).  A boy lives only in the moment and his plans are mostly around which bar he’s going to hit up on the weekend.
  3. A man looks for a woman with intelligence, who is supportive, grounded and encompasses a shared set of values when choosing a partner. A boy cares mostly only for girls who are hot, wild and exciting.
  4. A man knows a good woman when he meets one and will take initiative to get to know her. A boy may make an attempt if you’re lucky, but gives up before ever really trying.
  5. A man has the courage to have uncomfortable conversations. He is honest with his intentions and lets people know where they stand. A boy avoids. He ignores confrontation or any serious talks about feelings. Instead of dealing with a situation, he runs away from it or creates drama or excuses to mask the fact he’s not that into you or a relationship.
  6. A man knows when to invest in a woman and jump in with two feet. A boy is always “testing” – he doesn’t fully commit because he never knows if he is quite ready. But the truth is, because he is a boy, regardless of who he meets, he will never be ready due to the stage of life he is in.
  7. A man knows how to have a good time and be social, but is often busy making strides in his career and building his life. A boy is getting crunk with his buddies at the bar every weekend.
  8. A man takes the time to reflect on the type of man he wants to be, the example he wants to leave and the vision for his life. He has put thought into his values. A boy has not established his moral compass or values and consequently, is often inconsistent.
  9. A man has integrity. He means what he says, and says what he means. He has follow through and actions his promises. And if he can’t he has the guts to tell you why. A boy makes promises but doesn’t follow through.
  10. A man is afraid of rejection but will put himself out there anyway. A boy is afraid of rejection and acts passive so that his pride and ego won’t ever get too banged up.
Now, a lot of these differences require taking the time to know someone to figure out if the apple of your eye is indeed a man, or a mere boy. However, one of the quickest filters that you can notice from the beginning is this:

11. A boy plays games. A man doesn’t.  :)

Monday, January 21, 2013

Happy New Year

Hi everyone.. its year 2013.. and I feel like blogging again.. will be coming up with my 1st post soon.. until then.. take care and God Bless everyone..

Friday, October 19, 2012

Free Fall From Space

Austrian daredevil Felix Baumgartner fell to Earth from 24 miles up Sunday, enrapturing millions of people following a live feed of his stunt as he became the first human being to travel faster than the speed of sound without the assistance of a craft.

During a four-minute, 20-second free fall, he reached a speed of Mach 1.24 or 833.9 miles per hour, according to an official with the National Aeronautic Association.

The data on Baumgartner’s jump is preliminary until verified by international authorities, including those in Austria, Baumgartner’s home country.

He stands to have broken three records: the highest jump from a platform, the longest free fall without a drogue parachute and the highest vertical velocity.

“These are mind-blowing numbers,” Baumgartner said at a news conference later. “When I was standing there on top of the world, you become so humble, you do not think about breaking records anymore, you do not think about gaining scientific data. The only thing you want is you want to come back alive.”

When asked how it felt to travel faster than the speed of sound, Baumgartner said it was “hard to describe” because he “didn’t feel it at all.” The pressurized suit operated much like a casket, protecting him against the thin air and keeping his bodily fluids from essentially boiling at the high altitude.

Baumgartner, 43, completed his historic sky-dive above ­Roswell, N.M., a location chosen for its favorable weather conditions — a critical component of the high-risk mission. He was guided throughout the feat by retired Air Force Col. Joseph Kittinger, who held the previous record for highest sky-dive, for his 1960 jump from a balloon just over 19 miles up.

Baumgartner, clearly proud of what he and his team had achieved, said that he looked forward to being in Kittinger’s shoes in the future and guiding another aspiring supersonic traveler to achieve the dream of falling from the edge of space.

Thursday, December 8, 2011

99 Facts About Guyz

It has been a very long time since I post anything in here. So, tonite i decide to post something long and interesting that I came across recently. Of course anyone can read this post.. but.. this post is specially for all the girls out there.. so girls.. dont forget to read this :)

So here are the facts..

1. Guys don’t actually look after good-looking girls. They prefer neat and presentable girls.

2. Guys hate flirts.

3. A guy can like you for a minute, and then forget you afterwards.

4. When a guy says he doesn’t understand you, it simply means you’re not thinking the way he is.

5. “Are you doing something?” or “Have you eaten already?” are the first usual questions a guy asks on the phone just to get out from stammering.

6. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.

7. When a guy really likes you, he’ll disregard all your bad characteristics.

8. Guys go crazy over a girl’s smile.

9. Guys will do anything just to get the girl’s attention.

10. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend.

11. When guys want to meet your parents. Let them.

12. Guys want to tell you many things but they can’t. And they sure have one habit to gain courage and spirit to tell you many things and it is drinking!

13. Guys cry!!!

14. Don’t provoke the guy to heat up. Believe me. He will.

15. Guys can never dream and hope too much.

16. Guys usually try hard to get the girl who has dumped them, and this makes it harder for them to accept their defeat.

17. When you touch a guy’s heart, there’s no turning back.

18. Giving a guy a hanging message like “You know what? Uh…never mind!” would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking.

19. Guys go crazy when girls touch their hands.

20. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.

21. When a guy makes a prolonged “umm” or makes any excuses when you’re asking him to do you a favor, he’s actually saying that he doesn’t like you and he can’t lay down the card for you.

22. When a girl says “no”, a guy hears it as “try again tomorrow.”

23. You have to tell a guy what you really want before he gets the message clearly.

24. Guys hate nice boy!

25. Guys love their moms.

26. A guy would sacrifice his money for lunch just to get you a couple of roses.

27. A guy often thinks about the girl who likes him. But this doesn’t mean that the guy likes her.

28. You can never understand him unless you listen to him.

29. If a guy tells you he loves you once in a lifetime. He does.

30. Beware. Guys can make gossips scatter through half of the face of the earth faster than girls can.

31. Like Eve, girls are guys’ weaknesses.

32. Guys are very open about themselves.

33. Its good to test a guy first before you believe him. But don’t let him wait that long.

34. No guy is bad when he is courting

35. Guys hate it when their clothes get dirty. Even a small dot.

36. Guys really admire girls that they like even if they’re not that much pretty.

37. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.

38. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don’t need to give advice.

39. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.

40. A guy finds ways to keep you off from linking with someone else.

41. Guys love girls with brains more than girls in miniskirts.

42. Guys try to find the stuffed toy a girl wants but would unluckily get the wrong one.

43. Guys virtually brag about anything.

44. Guys cannot keep secrets that girls tell them.

45. Guys think too much.

46. Guys’ fantasies are unlimited.

47. Girls’ height doesn’t really matter to a guy but her weight does!

48. Guys tend to get serious with their relationship and become too possessive. So watch out girls!!!

49. When a girl makes the boy suffer during courtship, it would be hard for him to let go of that girl.

50. It’s not easy for a guy to let go of his girlfriend after they broke up especially when they’ve been together for 3 years or more.

51. You have to tell a guy what you really want before getting involved with that guy.

52. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he’s too-good-never-been-busted
, never been in love and hurt, he won’t be matured and grow up.

53. When an unlikable circumstance comes, guys blame themselves a lot more than girls do. They could even hurt themselves physically.


54. Guys have strong passion to change but have weak will power.


55. Guys are tigers in their peer groups but become tamed pussycats with their girlfriends.


56. When a guy pretends to be calm, check if he’s sweating. You’ll probably see that he is nervous.


57. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl. He really is.


58. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he’s just actually saying, “Please come and listen to me”


59. Guys don’t really have final decisions.


60. When a guy loves you, bring out the best in him.


61. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him.


62. If a guy has been kept shut or silent, say something.


63. Guys believe that there’s no such thing as love at first sight, but court the girls anyway and then realize at the end that he is wrong.


64. Guys like femininity not feebleness.


65. Guys don’t like girls who punch harder than they do.


66. A guy may instantly know if the girl likes him but can never be sure unless the girl tells him.


67. A guy would waste his time over video games and basketball, the way a girl would do over her romance novels and make-ups.


68. Guys love girls who can cook or bake.


69. Guys like girls who are like their moms. No kidding!


70. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.


71. A guy’s friend knows everything about him. Use this to your advantage.


72. Don’t be a snob. Guys may easily give up on the first sign of rejection.


73. Don’t be biased. Try loving a guy without prejudice and you’ll be surprised.


74. Girls who bathe in their eau de perfumes do more repelling than attracting guys.


75. Guys are more talkative than girls are especially when the topic is about girls.


76. Guys don’t comprehend the statement “Get lost” too well.


77. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions but still love them more.


78. When a guy gives a crooked or pretentious grin at your jokes, he finds them offending and he just tried to be polite.


79. Guys don’t care about how shiny their shoes are unlike girls.


80. Guys tend to generalize about girls but once they get to know them, they’ll realize they’re wrong.


81. Any guy can handle his problems all by his own. He’s just too stubborn to deal with it.


82. Guys find it so objectionable when a girl swears.


83. Guys’ weakest point is at the knee.


84. When a problem arises, a guy usually keeps himself cool but is already thinking of a way out.


85. When a guy is conscious of his looks, it shows he is not good at fixing things.


86. When a guy looks at you, either he’s amazed of you or he’s criticizing you.


87. When you catch him cheating on you and he asks for a second chance, give it to him. But when you catch him again and he asks for another chance, ignore him.


88. If a guy lets you go, he really loves you.


89. If you have a boyfriend, and your boy best friend always glances at you and it obviously shows that he is jealous whenever you’re with your boyfriend, all I can say is your boy best friend loves you more than your boyfriend does.


90. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.


91. You can tell if a guy is really hurt or in pain when he cries in front of you!


92. If a guy suddenly asks you for a date, ask him first why.


93. When a guy says he can’t sleep if he doesn’t hear your voice even just for one night, hang up. He also tells that to another girl. He only flatters you and sometimes makes fun of you.


94. You can truly say that a guy has good intentions if you see him praying sometimes.


95. Guys seek for advice not from a guy but from a girl.


96. Girls are allowed to touch boys’ things. Not their hair!


97. If a guy says you’re beautiful, that guy likes you.


98. Guys hate girls who overreact.


99. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships.


Thank you for reading.. Have a nice day :)
Dr.Love



Thursday, March 10, 2011

Break Ups.. Break thru it..

Break Ups Suck! You give all you have to a relationship.. You give your heart to an individual.. You count on them to make you whole.. Then it's all over.. and just like that.. you are left a 'half'.. incomplete.. non-sufficient.. That really hurts !!

BUT.. If you think about it.. when you were in a relationship there must have been.. in some part of it.. a time when you wished you were single.. Right? Sometimes we envy those who are 'free' when we are not.. and we envy those who are 'in a relationship' when we are not.. Break Ups hurts.. yes.. but being single has a lot of great things to say about it !!

Its hard to get out of it.. but.. always say to urself.. that its not the end of the world.. and the person is not lucky enuff to have you in their life.. Love urself instead..

Its rewarding.. to find someone you like.. but it is essential to like yourself.. It is quickening to recognize that someone is a good and decent human being.. but it is indispensable to view yourself as acceptable.. It is a delight to discover people who are worthy of respect and admiration and love.. but it is vital to believe yourself deserving of these things.. For you cannot live in someone else.. You cannot find yourself in someone else.. You cannot be given a life by someone else.. Of all the people you will know in a lifetime.. you are the only one you will never leave or lose.. To the question of your life.. you are the only answer.. To the problems of your life.. you are the only solution..

Its hard.. but its all in you.. :)