Interesting Matter.. Must Read !!

I came across this interesting article.. which was funny.. and kinda true i guess.. what u all think about it ?


How to Make a Woman Happy ?

It's not difficult to make a woman happy. A man only needs to be:

1. a friend
2. a companion
3. a lover
4. a brother
5. a father
6. a master
7. a chef
8. an electrician
9. a carpenter
10. a plumber
11. a mechanic
12. a decorator
13. a stylist
14. a sexologist
15. a gynecologist
16. a psychologist
17. a pest exterminator
18. a psychiatrist
19. a healer
20. a good listener
21. an organizer
22. a good father
23. very clean
24. sympathetic
25. athletic
26. warm
27. attentive
28. gallant
29. intelligent
30. funny
31. creative
32. tender
33. strong
34. understanding
35. tolerant
36. prudent
37. ambitious
38. capable
39. courageous
40. determined
41. true
42. dependable
43. passionate
44. compassionate

WITHOUT FORGETTING TO :

45. give her compliments regularly
46. love shopping
47. be honest
48. be very rich
49. not stress her out
50. not look at other girls

AND AT THE SAME TIME, YOU MUST ALSO :

51. give her lots of attention, but expect little yourself
52. give her lots of time, especially time for herself
53. give her lots of space, never worrying about where she goes

IT IS VERY IMPORTANT :

54. Never to forget:
* birthdays
* anniversaries
* arrangements she makes

and.. according to the article.. to make a man happy.. woman just need to love only him.. and cook him food.. :).. leave ur comments..

Open Relationship ???

Good to be here after so long.. Well.. Today while going out for a drink with my frenz.. the term Open Relationship came up during the conversation.. but.. none of us.. could really tell what is it actually about.. so.. what to do.. ? when we dont know about something.. we should find out.. rite? Lets see what i found out..

Open Relationship.. has 3 main definitions.. which are :

1. A relationship (often between two people) in which the participants are free to have sexual intercourse with other partners. If the couple making this agreement are married, it is then called an open marriage.

2. A relationship where both partners hide nothing from each other, including their past relationships and sexual experiences.

3. A relationship where both partners have agreed that monogamy, sexual fidelity or exclusivity are not expected. A polyamory relationship in which there may also be other lovers who are not partners in the given relationship. Most commonly, this refers to a primary couple who may have secondary relationships.

If u guys wonder what is Polyamory.. it means.. extension of a relationship by allowing bonds to form.. obviously more than one bond..

There are few types of Open Relationship.. which are :

1. A relationship that place strict restrictions on partners.. such relationships are polyamorous, but not open.

2. A relationship that permit sex outside the primary relationship, but not love.. such relationships are open, but not polyamorous ( Swinging )..

3. A relationship that do not accept the term of being in a relationship or not in a relationship.. they dont believe in it..

4. A relationship with 2 people that believe that they are capable and desirous of multiple loves.. whereas 'open relationship' is used as a logistical description: that is, it is how their polyamory is expressed or implemented..

So now.. i think.. we have a brief information about this Open Relationship term.. this term is a very popular culture.. In European countries.. mainly in Canada.. and Britain.. where there a lot of writings.. songs.. and books.. on it.. there are even sex educators that advocate on Open relationships.. Obviously it sounds so interesting n fun honestly.. but the question is.. Is it suitable for our Culture.. ?

So now.. If anyone of our frenz.. says that he or she is in an Open Relationship.. At least.. we know what they mean.. huhu.. Hopefully they know what it means too.. before they come up to such decision..

Meals that melts off pounds..

BREAKFAST

RICOTTA WRAP
(350 calories)
1/4 cup plus 2 tbsp nonfat ricotta, 2 tbsp slivered almonds, 1/2 cup berries and 2 tsp honey in 1 whole-grain wrap such as Flatout multigrain flatbread

YOGURT CRUNCH
(350 calories)
5 oz plain yogurt, 4 walnut halves, 3 tbsp All-Bran, 1/4 cup granola and 3/4 cup cubed melon

BACON, EGG AND CHEESE MUFFIN
(500 calories)
Scramble 1 large egg in 1 tsp margarine and place on a toasted whole-grain English muffin spread with 1 tsp margarine. Top with 1 slice cooked turkey bacon and 2 tbsp shredded reduced-fat cheddar. Serve with 3/4 cup berries, 1/4 cup lowfat vanilla yogurt and 12 oz skim latte.


LUNCHES

SHRIMP SALAD
(400 calories)
10 cooked shrimp, 1/3 avocado, sliced, 1 tbsp slivered almonds, 2 tbsp each diced red onion and carrot, 1 tbsp prepared sesame dressing, tossed with 2 cups greens; 3 whole-grain crispbreads.

TANGY TURKEY PITA
(550 calories)
3 oz turkey breast, 5 olives, 3 tbsp feta, 2 tbsp each diced cucumber and tomato, 6 spinach leaves, 1 tbsp olive oil and 2 tsp balsamic vinegar in 1 whole-wheat pita; 1 large orange.

PEAR ‘WICH
(650 calories)
3 tbsp almond butter, 1/2 large pear, sliced, 1/8 tsp cinnamon on 2 slices whole-wheat bread. Serve with the other half of the pear.


DINNERS

FISH AND FRIES
(400 calories)
4 oz cod rubbed with 1 tsp olive oil, seared (2 to 3 minutes per side); 12 Alexia Sweet Potato Fries, baked as directed on package; 1 1/2 cups sliced cabbage tossed with 2 tbsp reduced-fat dressing.

CHICKPEA PASTA
(550 calories)
1/3 cup chopped onion, 2 cups chopped zucchini, 1/2 cup red bell pepper, chopped, and 1/2 cup chickpeas sautéed in 1 tbsp olive oil. Mix with 1 cup cooked ziti, 2 tbsp Parmesan.

CHICKEN PILAF
(600 calories)
3/4 cup cubed, cooked, skinless chicken mixed with 1 1/2 cups cooked Near East Whole Grain Wheat Pilaf drizzled with 1 tbsp olive oil; 1 cup steamed cauliflower with 1 tbsp lemon juice and 2 tbsp fresh parsley


SNACKS

Turkey and cheese roll-up
(100 calories)
1 oz sliced turkey breast, 1 oz sliced reduced-fat cheddar rolled up.

Chocolate milk with nuts
(150 calories)
1 cup light chocolate soymilk, 13 pistachios

Orange spritzer and almonds
(150 calories)
8 oz orange juice mixed with 4 oz sparkling water; 7 almonds

Try it out.. It seems can lose pounds in a week.. :)

Recognise the Signs

Current Sign : Pisces (Feb 20 - March 20)

Snap out of the reverie.. When you can stop dreaming..

Opposite sign : Virgo

Color : Sea green and mauve

Dudes
*You can be everything your woman wants you to be-or everything she does not want
you to be. You are not weak. It's just that you may linger too long on a fading dream
and miss the bright sunlight of success.

* It is difficult for you to let go of your dream, so you try to work out a nice
compromise. Your fancy dream fits nicely into your daily routine. You will never be
short of romance. Everything said and done, you expect technical loyalty. You are
extremely sympathetic to friends, but there are times when your loneliness may kill
you. These spells of depression cause the gloom to gather.

Chicks
* You have implicit faith that any man is invincible. You come out of the illusion soon
enough, and what you actually see surprises you.

* You adapt beautifully and quietly to conflicting situations. The hardest lesson you
have to learn is letting go of your timidity. You will give all of her heart to your
children, you will love them all. You will sacrifice anything so your children can have
what you were denied as a child. You may be too permissive. Administering discipline
is difficult for you. You may be a wee bit extravagant, but you know how to keep a
tight leash on your finances.

Love Sign : Sagittarius
Whoever coined the term "dream lover" must have been thinking of you, for you
often have your head in the clouds. Once back to Earth, you will pursue affairs of the
heart slowly and carefully, your aesthetic sensibilities finely tuned. The mystery tour
of romance with you can be most unpredictable, with hearts one day and flowers the
other.

Scorpio in Relationship
You exhibit an easygoing, go-with-the-flow quality, which is a boon to relationships.
Your relationship with your lover is characterized by imagination, sensitivity and great
emotions, and you sometimes wear your heart on your sleeve. Because of this, a
lover who can protect you and make you feel safe is ideal. Giving is also paramount
your mind, yet sometimes you run the risk of giving too much, thanks to your selfless
nature.

Lucky Gem: Cat's Eye
Lucky number :10
Lucky color : Scarlet
Lucky Day : Monday

Careers
Actor, Charity worker, Chemist, Designer, Photographer, Poet, Secret agent..

Money
Complex and idealistic, you are the dreamer of the zodiac, forever searching for that
something special, over the next rainbow. Even if you seem to have it all, you will
never end your quest. Exploring your spirit, both mentally and physically, is a favorite
pastime with you. Although you may appear careless, you are actually quite good
with money. It's not important to you, though -- your dreams are. Many dreams,
sadly, require money if they are to become a reality, so you are often compelled to
achieve financial success for the greater good. You rarely worry about money,
perhaps because you either inherit wealth or marry into it! It's safe to say you enjoy
having money around, because it helps to fund your causes. You simply cannot say
no when someone asks you for money, yet you never keep track of where the money
went! Some things are forever hazy with you...

The month of LOVE..

February is known as the Month of Love.. and as most of us know.. Valentine's Day is on the 14th.. Flowers.. candies.. candlelit dinners.. movies.. dates.. are part and parcial of Valentine's Day.. There are 3 stories behind birth of this special day..

There was an ancient Roman Emperor.. Claudius II.. believed unmarried men made better soldiers.. so he banned young men from marrying.. Saint Valentine.. a priest.. felt this was an injustice to young lovers and performed marriages in secret.. When Claudius II found out about this.. Valentine was ordered to death.. so the day was remembered for him..

Then.. there is Cupid.. He was the God of Love in Roman Mythology.. his mother was Venus.. There is a story where Venus was jealous of the beauty of a mortal.. named Psyche.. Venus sent Cupid to punish Psyche for her good looks.. but Cupid fell in love with her instead..

Saint Valentine.. who upon rejection by his mistress was so heartbroken that he took a knife to his chest and sent her his still-beating heart as a token of his undying love for her..

There is 10 days more for the day.. those out there.. who are planning to tell someone that u love that person.. think !! sit down and think !! do u really love that person.. coze the word LOVE is not a simple word to just say it around.. or to simply play with someone's feelings.. coze that someone might really truly love u.. and u will be kidding around without realising that one day u gonna hurt that person.. love is not a game.. say I LOVE YOU.. only if u really love a person..

Is it really love?
or is it just a passing feeling
am I not convinced?
a bit uncertain of the feeling

Is it the way you make me feel?
so warm with joy and laughter
or could it be the happiness
from moments spent together

The lasting bliss, the kiss I miss,
The sweetest thoughts without a touch
The heart that hurts and bears a scar
thinking how far away you are

You're on my mind most of the day
And at night I go to bed and pray
An angel soft and gentle as you
Would make my sweetest dreams come true

Thinking about you alone or in class
Writing your name on my bathroom window glass
Wishing you were here
To love hold and care
Wishing I had you with me
To cherish and to stare

Into your soft and beautiful eyes
As we both travel to the skies
And mingle with the stars above
But is it really love ?

May God bless everyone with true love and happiness

Sex b4 Marriage..

First of all.. virginity is for both gender not only for girls...

Love may seem very convincing till one day he comes and say.. " i wanna have sex wit u.." she says no!! he then plays his normal game.. "u don trust me rite.. u dont love me rite.." then she cries n says.. "no dear i love u the most in this world.. i'll do anything 4 u just dont say like this anymore please.." she agrees to it just 4 him.. after everyting is over.. she sees a lot of changes in him.. not the way he used to love her.. she gets very hurt but couldnt do much.. she offered herself to him so she's afraid to loose him...sometimes he treats her very well but its only for 1 reason.. "can we do it again?" she have no choice.. it goes on 4 a few months and he finally says.. " i dont think its going on well.. i'm interested in someone else.. im sorry " n he walks off.. she cries alot for a few months then the lonely soul becomes weak.. her life is ruined.. she starts not to believe any guy.. she changes a lot.. she sleeps with every guy she get into a relationship with.. and the same things happen.. no good guys willing to accept her because she's not virgin anymore.. and finally she starts to become someone very cheap... From a survey.. 89 .72% of our today's teens are destroyed because of sex.. both are to be blamed.. they failed to understand wat is love.. They confuse themself between.. affection.. lust and love.. For those who r in a relationship out there.. ask these questions to urself...

1. have your partner ever asked u to have sex?

2. Is there any changes in him after sex?

Ur the most luckiest person if your answer is NO and if its yes.. ask urself y? n you gotta do something about it.. to all girls n boys.. love is not about sex.. I know some of u think that its just making love with the person u love.. but trust me u r wrong.. If u really love a guy.. see if he can ignore sex until the day of marriage.. If he cant wait and keep on bugging u for sex.. it means.. he just wants sex.. If he waits until marriage.. thats 1 thing only the good guys can do.. Then u can know that u have a really good guy in ur life.. NEVER FALL 4 ANY SWEET WORDS !! u wont wanna know how ur life will be if u make a mistake.. Loose your virginity only to your husband.. only he deserves your love.. not a bf who promises to marry u.. not a bf.. that u think who loves u so much and u love him so much.. but actually everything in the relationship is uncertain.. Hope you girls and boys learn something from this.. Coze right now.. even there are some gals who does the same thing to guys.. Life is a journey.. not a destination.. so its time to look back and think which is the right thing to do..

Regards..
Dr. Love

Finally It's here.. Tuppariyum Puli..

Its here finally.. and we would love to thank our directors.. crew members.. and everyone who gave us support and still giving us support.. this is a chance.. we all took.. to make things different.. and we will always need support and blessings from everyone.. 10q.. Watch out for it soon..