The month of LOVE..

February is known as the Month of Love.. and as most of us know.. Valentine's Day is on the 14th.. Flowers.. candies.. candlelit dinners.. movies.. dates.. are part and parcial of Valentine's Day.. There are 3 stories behind birth of this special day..

There was an ancient Roman Emperor.. Claudius II.. believed unmarried men made better soldiers.. so he banned young men from marrying.. Saint Valentine.. a priest.. felt this was an injustice to young lovers and performed marriages in secret.. When Claudius II found out about this.. Valentine was ordered to death.. so the day was remembered for him..

Then.. there is Cupid.. He was the God of Love in Roman Mythology.. his mother was Venus.. There is a story where Venus was jealous of the beauty of a mortal.. named Psyche.. Venus sent Cupid to punish Psyche for her good looks.. but Cupid fell in love with her instead..

Saint Valentine.. who upon rejection by his mistress was so heartbroken that he took a knife to his chest and sent her his still-beating heart as a token of his undying love for her..

There is 10 days more for the day.. those out there.. who are planning to tell someone that u love that person.. think !! sit down and think !! do u really love that person.. coze the word LOVE is not a simple word to just say it around.. or to simply play with someone's feelings.. coze that someone might really truly love u.. and u will be kidding around without realising that one day u gonna hurt that person.. love is not a game.. say I LOVE YOU.. only if u really love a person..

Is it really love?
or is it just a passing feeling
am I not convinced?
a bit uncertain of the feeling

Is it the way you make me feel?
so warm with joy and laughter
or could it be the happiness
from moments spent together

The lasting bliss, the kiss I miss,
The sweetest thoughts without a touch
The heart that hurts and bears a scar
thinking how far away you are

You're on my mind most of the day
And at night I go to bed and pray
An angel soft and gentle as you
Would make my sweetest dreams come true

Thinking about you alone or in class
Writing your name on my bathroom window glass
Wishing you were here
To love hold and care
Wishing I had you with me
To cherish and to stare

Into your soft and beautiful eyes
As we both travel to the skies
And mingle with the stars above
But is it really love ?

May God bless everyone with true love and happiness

Sex b4 Marriage..

First of all.. virginity is for both gender not only for girls...

Love may seem very convincing till one day he comes and say.. " i wanna have sex wit u.." she says no!! he then plays his normal game.. "u don trust me rite.. u dont love me rite.." then she cries n says.. "no dear i love u the most in this world.. i'll do anything 4 u just dont say like this anymore please.." she agrees to it just 4 him.. after everyting is over.. she sees a lot of changes in him.. not the way he used to love her.. she gets very hurt but couldnt do much.. she offered herself to him so she's afraid to loose him...sometimes he treats her very well but its only for 1 reason.. "can we do it again?" she have no choice.. it goes on 4 a few months and he finally says.. " i dont think its going on well.. i'm interested in someone else.. im sorry " n he walks off.. she cries alot for a few months then the lonely soul becomes weak.. her life is ruined.. she starts not to believe any guy.. she changes a lot.. she sleeps with every guy she get into a relationship with.. and the same things happen.. no good guys willing to accept her because she's not virgin anymore.. and finally she starts to become someone very cheap... From a survey.. 89 .72% of our today's teens are destroyed because of sex.. both are to be blamed.. they failed to understand wat is love.. They confuse themself between.. affection.. lust and love.. For those who r in a relationship out there.. ask these questions to urself...

1. have your partner ever asked u to have sex?

2. Is there any changes in him after sex?

Ur the most luckiest person if your answer is NO and if its yes.. ask urself y? n you gotta do something about it.. to all girls n boys.. love is not about sex.. I know some of u think that its just making love with the person u love.. but trust me u r wrong.. If u really love a guy.. see if he can ignore sex until the day of marriage.. If he cant wait and keep on bugging u for sex.. it means.. he just wants sex.. If he waits until marriage.. thats 1 thing only the good guys can do.. Then u can know that u have a really good guy in ur life.. NEVER FALL 4 ANY SWEET WORDS !! u wont wanna know how ur life will be if u make a mistake.. Loose your virginity only to your husband.. only he deserves your love.. not a bf who promises to marry u.. not a bf.. that u think who loves u so much and u love him so much.. but actually everything in the relationship is uncertain.. Hope you girls and boys learn something from this.. Coze right now.. even there are some gals who does the same thing to guys.. Life is a journey.. not a destination.. so its time to look back and think which is the right thing to do..

Regards..
Dr. Love

Finally It's here.. Tuppariyum Puli..

Its here finally.. and we would love to thank our directors.. crew members.. and everyone who gave us support and still giving us support.. this is a chance.. we all took.. to make things different.. and we will always need support and blessings from everyone.. 10q.. Watch out for it soon..

Hey !! It's New Year.. and we r still alive.. !!

Hey !! It's new year.. and we r still alive.. haha.. thats what i shouted.. when the new year was born.. Long time din write anything.. ok lets go back a bit.. huhu..

Christmas was fun.. from morning 10am.. people start visiting my house.. until nite.. it was indeed a tiring day.. and it was another wonderful christmas.. a lot my frenz came.. 10q to those.. who came to visit me.. and 1oq to those who wished me.. I came back to cyber.. the next day of christmas.. coze din wanna trouble my mum.. want her to rest.. coze.. she was extremely tired after a long day of christmas.. if i am at home.. she will be cooking for me again.. so i din wanna trouble her..

Few of my good frenz got married too.. couldnt attend their wedding.. felt a bit sad but its ok.. May God bless them with true love.. happiness and wonderful children..

Then came new year eve.. actually I had a photo shoot for a new movie and after that.. we planned to go and eat.. after eating.. we dont know what to do.. so.. we decided.. to just go to the curve and chill there.. so we did.. we saw the fireworks.. which was really cool.. and thats when i shouted the line which is the title of this post.. haha.. actually its true.. its 2009 and we r still alive.. and a definite thanks to the almighty God.. who keep us safe and sound throughout 2008..

As for my frenz and readers.. I have few things to say.. new year.. is a new day.. and a new beginning ONLY if.. u want it to be a new beginning.. if not its just another normal day.. so.. if u wanna set a new year resolution.. then.. make sure.. achieve it.. and from me.. i would say that.. this year is gonna change my life i guess.. i hope so.. lets face it.. live it and see..

I received few wishes which were really meaningful.. and i would like to share it here.. "The winning horse doesnt know why it runs in the race.. but.. it knows.. it runs faster coze of the beats and pain.. the larger the pain are.. the stronger u become.. Life is like a race.. God is the Jockey.. the harder he beats u.. the stronger he makes u to win.. so dont be distressed.. be a winning horse.. Life is difficult.. but its always possible.. "

My respected dad told me something which was very meaningful too.. " Face ur past without regrets.. Handle ur present with confidence.. Prepare for the future without fear.. Keep the faith and drop the fear.. believe ur doubts n never doubt ur beliefs.. Life is wonderful if u know how to live it.. "

2008 was a eventful year.. a lot of things happened.. ups and downs.. sadness and happiness.. it was a nice blend.. and surely wont be forgotten.. and I hope this year.. is gonna be fantastic.. and lets cruise through it.. Happy New Year 2009.. all the best.. and May God bless u all..

ICS Nite - Shit Happens..

It was a SHOW.. Hell or Heaven.. probably ended up as Hell.. the moral of the story is.. too many cook spoil the soup.. many things happen.. especially the wonderful sound system.. which was absolutely the sound man's fault.. coze he did not test full blast during the rehearsal.. when it was blasted during the show.. it cozed the trip.. other than that.. time management.. the show should be coordinated more well.. and.. PLZZZZ in future.. do not call a lot of these guest artists and give priority to MMU students.. coze its our show.. not theirs.. and next time make sure guest artist perform something that make sense.. remind them about it.. coze not all the people in the crowd are youth.. and not all can understand rap.. and make sure about the usage of the language too.. is it appropriate or not.. these are the comments that i personally think are relevant and also received from few important people..

Despite all that.. the motive of charity was good.. and it was indeed a good collection this time.. nevermind.. shit happens.. and no need harsh status msg in ym and all.. moreover its time to forgive and forget.. coze its Christmas la dudes..

Merry Christmas.. May God bless everyone.. and have a wonderful christmas.. everyone is welcomed to my house on this 25th.. take care.. have a magical christmas..

The Name is Rajinikanth..

Happy 59th Birthday to my beloved uncle Sivaji Rao Gaekward a.k.a. Super Star Rajinikanth..
May God bless you with astonishing true love from all over the world and more n more happiness forever..

Miss u a lot Maama.. Cant wait to see u..

What the hell is going on ??

Come on laaa... Relationship??? pls dont be in one.. if u do not know how to be in one.. why wanna be in a relationship if u wanna split... and hurt each other ??

Guys..
When u r in ur relationship.. do not change all of a sudden.. dont start to avoid ur frenz.. there is no need to delete frenster or facebook account.. there is no need to ignore u guy frenz.. there is no need to not join whatever ur guy frens do like always.. if u dont want ur gf to have a other guy fren.. then u also dont have other gal fren.. can u ? if u dont want ur gf to flirt with other guys.. can u stop flirting with other gals ?.. can u stop changing gals like u change ur shirt ? Pls respect them.. Guys should have some good image for urself..

Gals..
Can u choose the rite guy in the 1st place althought its hard to know who r the good guys.. but why rush in ?? why not be patient.. why always choose the wrong guy when u have the right person.. right in front of ur eyes.. which u dont realise too.. it's like a blind spot.. normally u have reasons to avoid this person.. why wanna be in a relationship with a guy.. and then complain that he is not taking good care of u.. ? dont bug his life to leave his frens.. he know them longer than u.. do not bug him to delete frenster or facebook account.. if u dont like ur bf talking with other gals.. do u realise that he will feel the same too ? so can u stop being a fren to other guys?.. and the weirdest thing is.. how in the hell u break up with a guy.. n so fast be another guy's gf.. gal's should be like fire.. nice to see.. but untouchable.. not like a LALANG..

Now.. there is no relationship without fights.. jealousy.. and ego.. its all normal.. but.. 2 things are important.. TRUST and UNDERSTANDING.. no matter what happens.. no matter how the couples are.. if they truly have this 2 things between them.. then no need to face so many problems.. until wanna quit studying.. wanna kill urself.. wanna revenge.. wanna create bad name..

If u do not trust and do not understand each other well.. in the 1st place.. do not be in a relationship.. another thing is.. dont be in a relationship when u r too young n dont know nuts about it.. coze there are many couples who really make it to the special day of life.. the recipe is.. Trust & Understanding which give birth to TRUE LOVE..

Sorry if this post hurts anyone.. i dont mean to.. but.. its just the things happening around me.. the people who r in tears.. the people who r suffering.. the people who r going throught hell just becoze of a relationship.. makes me post this..

Regards..
T1&O